Vforked - a gearhead, kinkster and biker into bondage.

About myself

Hi there, I am Vforked. I am a 0-year-old gearhead living in London (UK) with a strong interest for bondage and gearplay.

I am a mix of a deeply geeky/rational mindset and a creative one. I have a wide range of hobbies including visual arts (sketching & painting), semi-professional photography (see my gallery below), music composition (a weird combination of metal, orchestral and synth), electronics and social sciences.

I am also a motorhead. I occasionally strip-down (and reassemble) engines, from lawn mowers to bikes and cars. I ride a MX bike and a hyper-naked superbike and enjoy talking about mechanics.

In my spare time I am a non-professional sportsman. I am into outdoor/endurance sports and I like to take part in marathons and triathlons, which gives me a good opportunity to travel around the world and make new friends.

The real-life-me is a very responsible and hard-working man. I have a PhD in engineering and a sorted life. I have a very open and kinky mind though, which is what this whole website is about.

I am open to meet sane, sorted, intelligent and trustworthy people with interest in gear and with a somewhat similar mindset. People and brains interest me more than looks, although if you happen to be a sportsman with a kinky brain you'll fast-track to the VIP lounge ;)

I am a very open-minded, independent and strongly determined person, but I tend to have a strong boundary between real-life and playing. As a real-life person I am extremely friendly and well-mannered. I do expect my playmates to be the same - outside of sessions - regardless of the role.
During sessions I can change attitude radically if necessary and agreed upfront.

Many people seem to be confused about what well-mannered means and assume it implies being shy, unconfident or submissive. I am neither. I have a hard time tolerating cocky or arrogant people and I know how to deal with them. If you happen to be one of them I'll show you the closest wall, and that won't happen in a sexy way.

Kinks

Before getting into a long list of do/don'ts, here's a few key things that matter to me.

Top vs sub? I am a switch, depending on our mutual experience I might be more of a top or a sub.
Trust is everything, both in real-life and while playing. Establishing a relationship of deep trust is fundamental for any form of enjoyable play. I don't care how hot or popular you might be, if I don't find you sane, sorted and trustworthy it's a no-go for me.
Respect is paramount. I am deeply obsessed with respect in real life, and that bleeds a lot into my sessions, both as a top and as a sub. Many people seem to think that respect contradicts roleplay. On the contrary, it adds the opportunity for truly deep experiences. I am not a fan of humiliation / degradation scenarios, but I am a huge fan of respect-based power play, hierarchy-play and (consensual) control dynamics. One can be extremely respectful and yet extremely dominant. Try me if you don't believe it ;)
Protocol violations. I treat violations of pre-agreed limits and rules extremely seriously. If you deliberately act maliciously (e.g., by taking pictures in a context we agreed not to) do expect getting into long-lasting troubles. Genuine / unintended accidents are okay (let's still try our best to avoid them though).

Inescapable bondage

Is a major interest of mine, in particular medical restraints like Segufix. While I enjoy it, it's an activity I do as a sub quite rarely, only after establishing some strong trust relationship with the other end. Being left unattended is a big no-no, both as top and sub.

Sensory deprivation

Is a major interest of mine, especially when combined with bondage.

Handcuffs & chains

Are a big interest of mine, especially when combined with other roleplay (e.g. military gear). However, I don't like the use of metal handcuffs for long periods of time due to the risk of nerve damage. I prefer switching to leather restraints for longer plays.

Edging

Especially if combined with bondage. I like the psychological and control parts both as a top and sub.

Roleplay (e.g. boot licking)

Some of it is a big turn-on as a top, TBD as a sub. In both cases I like it as long as it stays sane, I don't like if it degenerates into humiliation, trampling, or the like.

Hoods and masks

I like the layer separation and anonymity that hoods and masks create. I prefer neoprene hoods more to leather ones. Gas masks are okay although I am not necessarily obsessed with them.

Oral sex

Not a must but generally okay, more into that as a top than as a sub.

Mouth Gags

Gags are okay as long as they don't prevent me from breathing. I am not able to reliably breathe with my nose. When my blood pressure increases I am not able to breathe with my nose at all.

Stress positions & predicament

I don't find stress-related pain particularly appealing. Maybe okay if limited to short periods of time but not a huge fan.

Humiliation

Most of it is a turn-off for me - both as a top and as a sub - as it feels too fake. Respect-based roleplay OTOH is a big turn-on. A lot depends on the definition of "humiliation". As a general guideline "bark like a dog" (or other forms of pup play) is a No. "Get on your knees and listen carefully" is a Yes.

CBT

Not the "B" part. I don't find balls torture exciting, neither as a top nor as a sub. Some light hand play can be ok.

Electro

Cautiously curious, never tried it before. Definitely a big no-no anywhere above the waistline.

Nipple play

Not a huge fan but don't mind either if done in moderation.

Impact play

Spanking and cropping can be fun, as long as they doesn't target chest or face, and are done with moderation. I find the lack of anticipation and the ensuing stress interesting. Instead, I am not at all into the pain, in either role. Definitely not a must.

Tickling

Not as a sub. I am too ticklish and I don't enjoy the feeling.

Anal sex

It's something I do rarely, mostly due to hygiene and trust-related reasons. I tend to not like mixing it with BDSM.

Breath Control

Breath Control is a big no-no. The risk factor is too high for my liking. I've been prone to food choking as a child due to a (still present) design failure of my nasal septum. Any form of BC causes me immediate panic attacks.

Chastity devices

Are not an interest of mine, neither as a top nor as a sub.

Physical violence

Physical violence is a no-go, in either role. I consider violence a form of moral and intellectual inferiority and, as such, a turn off.

Fisting

Nope. Generally, I'm not okay with anything that causes changes in body shape.

Age play

If I hear the word "daddy" I'll show you the door.

Drugs

Strictly not into drugs, I play only sober and expect the same from my playmates. Poppers are fine, although I don't use or provide them.

Other exclusions

Piercings, blood, scat, rimming, fire. I am a hygiene freak. Anything related to most other body fluids turns me off.

Contacts

You are more than welcome to contact me, either on dating sites or e-mail. I try to reply to most messages, as long as I can sense a somewhat meaningful conversation. It goes without saying that "Hi! pics?" or "Hi, how are you?" are NOT a good conversation starter.

I don't always reply straightaway, so please give me a few days before starting yelling at me and asking why I am ignoring you. I don't check dating sites daily. Sometimes I am traveling around the world, sometimes I am very busy with work. Sometimes I see the message but don't have a way to reply immediately because I'm in the middle of my daily commute. In essence, don't expect I reply within hours. It's possible that I genuinely missed your message. If you think that's the case, just write me a ping after a couple of days.

Last but not least, please please please don't approach me with nudes. That's unlikely to trigger my interest and is more likely to put me off (unless you happen to have a genetic mutation and be endowed with a bioluminescent dong, in which case I'd be curious to see it). I've been on the internet for decades, I have seen any part of the human body in any possible shape and colour since the days of alt.sex.* and alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.*. I'm more likely interested in your brain and communication style than your pics.